So, your maalishwali didn’t turn up today? Or maybe she’s taken a few days off, and you are wondering how on earth you are going to manage oiling and bathing your tiny baby all by yourself. Don’t worry, we have all been there. The first time can feel overwhelming, but once you get the hang of it, you will be confidently handling maalish and bath time like a pro. Bathing is not only about cleaning the baby, but it is also a chance for bonding, comforting them, and helping them grow strong and healthy. Let’s walk you through the whole process step-by-step so you are not flustered even if maalishwali takes a day off.
What To Keep Handy
First things first, before you begin, gather everything you will need. You don’t want to leave your baby unattended even for a second once you start the process. Here’s a basic checklist:
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Clean baby towel (check out our soft organic baby hooded towels) and napkin
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A bowl of warm water (if sponge bathing)
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Mild baby soap and shampoo
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Cotton swabs or a washcloth
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Baby oil or lotion
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New diaper
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A set of clean clothes
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Swaddle cloth or baby wrap
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A soft brush or comb (optional)
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Baby powder (if you use it), nappy cream, waterproof changing mat.
How To Bathe Your Newborn
Bathing your baby is not just a hygiene ritual. For your newborn, it's a new sensory experience. Babies get the feel of warm water, the touch of your hands, and the smell of baby soap. It is all part of their little world. Until your baby's umbilical cord stump falls off (usually within the first two weeks), it's best to stick to sponge baths. After that, you can slowly start giving proper baths either in a baby bathtub or even on your legs, just like our dadis and nanis used to do.
Let’s break it down, starting with the oiling process.
Oiling
Baby maalish (oil massage) is practically a tradition. It is said to strengthen your baby’s bones and muscles, improve circulation, and promote better sleep. Most babies sleep after a comforting maalish and bath.
Here's how you can do it:
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Choose the right oil. Coconut oil is most preferred, but you can also use mustard oil. Or use specially made baby massage oils that are light and chemical-free.
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Undress your baby gently and lay them on a soft towel or padded surface. You can even put them on your legs.
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Start with the navel. Give it a nice rub, next put a drop in your baby’s intimate area and one small drop on the head.
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Move to the arms, chest, back, and tummy. Use gentle but firm strokes from the thigh to the ankle. Always be gentle, never press hard.
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When you massage their head, use just a few drops of oil, and avoid the fontanel (the soft spot on the top of the head).
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Talk to your baby as you massage them. They may not understand your words, but they will respond to your voice and warmth. After 10–15 minutes, your baby is ready for a bath.
Bathing
Bath time can be short and sweet, like around just 5 to 10 minutes. Here's how to go about it:
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Prepare the bath area in advance. Water at the right temperature, towel laid out, soap and clothes ready.
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Water temperature should be lukewarm. Test with your elbow or wrist.
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Lay your baby on your legs facing you. This method helps support the neck and back of your little one. Gently put water on the feet first, and then slowly move it upwards.
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Then use mild baby soap for the rest of the body, starting with the upper body, shoulders and then move on to the arms, legs, and finally the head. Avoid getting soap in the eyes, even if the label on the soap says “tear-free”.
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Clean all the folds – underarms, behind the ears, neck rolls, intimate areas, and between fingers and toes.
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Once done, carefully turn your baby onto their tummy and repeat the same process. Always start bathing from the upper body.
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Use a mug or small bowl to pour water for rinsing. Be gentle and slow.
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Washing the hair can be a bit delicate. An easy trick is to form a gentle grip by securing your forefinger in the crook between your thumb and forefinger of your right hand, creating a stable base to cradle your baby’s head as you pour water gently over it.
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Ensure the water does not go inside your baby’s mouth or nose.
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Make sure your baby doesn’t feel cold. If they start crying too much, you can cut the bath short and try again another day.
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To finish off, take a small bowl of water, move your hand in three circular motions in front of your baby, and pour the water on the floor. It’s a simple gesture many traditional Indians follow to protect their little ones from the evil eye.
Wiping
The moment your baby is out of the bath, wrap them immediately in a soft towel to keep them warm. Babies lose heat quickly. Pat the skin dry and never rub. Focus on drying all creases and folds, especially the neck, diaper area, and underarms. If your baby has dry patches, you can apply a mild baby lotion or coconut oil after wiping. If you are comfortable, apply baby powder. Ensure your baby is completely dry before putting on the nappy and clothes to avoid rashes.
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Swaddling
Swaddling helps newborns feel snug and secure, like they were in the womb. It can calm a fussy baby and help them sleep better. Here's how to do it safely:
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Spread a soft cotton or muslin swaddle cloth flat on the bed.
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Fold one corner down and place the baby so their head is above the fold.
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Bring one side over, tuck under the arm.
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Bring the bottom up and fold it near the shoulders.
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Wrap the other side across, tucking it under the back.
Swaddle snugly but not tightly. Your baby's hips should still be able to move. Avoid swaddling once your baby starts rolling over. Nintara Baby’s 100% organic swaddle wraps are cosy blankets designed to hug your baby just like the comforting embrace of the womb. When you swaddle your little one, it helps them feel secure and snug, which can prevent those sudden startles that might wake them up. Go check them out!
So, that's it. You will soon find yourself looking forward to those coos, giggles, and the fresh smell of your clean baby wrapped in a towel. And who knows, by the time your maalishwali returns, you may have become an expert in maalish and bath time! Just remember – keep it gentle, keep it warm, and keep it full of love.